A yearly observance encouraging heartfelt mail to brighten an elder’s day and ease isolation
History of Letter to an Elder Day
After the holidays, many older adults face heightened isolation, especially in the cold winter months. Jacob Cramer, founder of Love For Our Elders, saw this need firsthand as volunteer activity slowed. Wanting to spread joy during this difficult season, he chose February 26—his grandmother Doris’ birthday—to honor her tradition of sending him heartfelt letters that meant the world to him.
In 2020, Jacob organized the first Letter to an Elder Day at Whispering Pines Rehab and Nursing Center in East Haven, Connecticut. He distributed handwritten letters to the residents, and the local WTNH station covered the story, with Jacob officially coining the holiday on air.
Since then, Letter to an Elder Day has gained recognition from the United States Postal Service, Hallmark, the Kelly Clarkson Show, and numerous national holiday calendars. The observance continues to grow each year, with people participating across schools, workplaces, community events, and homes.
Timeline
Early 1900s - As formal care homes are established, letters from family members became an important way to stay in touch
1950s-1970s - Various organizations initiate letter-writing campaigns to connect youth with residents in care homes
2013 - Love For Our Elders nonprofit is founded by Jacob Cramer
2020 - Jacob creates Letter to an Elder Day, launching the first event at a local care home
Today - Letter to an Elder Day continues to grow, with recognition from USPS and Hallmark and thousands of annual participants
How to Get Involved
Write a letter: Share a thoughtful message with an elder loved one or a stranger through Love For Our Elders.
Host an event: Organize a letter-writing gathering with friends, family, school, or coworkers.
Spread the word: Use #LetterToAnElderDay on social media to inspire others.
Sponsor this year’s holiday: Reach out with your organization’s interest and budget! We’re still looking for our next exclusive sponsor.
FAQ
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That works! While February 26 is Letter to an Elder Day, participating on a different day during the month still counts and every act of service makes a difference.
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Check out our step-by-step guide to create a service activity for a company or group.
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