Letter to an Elder Day, on February 26, encourages sending heartfelt mail to brighten an elder’s day and ease isolation, reminding them they are loved and valued.

History of Letter to an Elder Day

After the holiday season, many older adults face increased isolation, particularly in the cold winter months. With fewer visitors and less social interaction, this time of year can feel especially lonely. Jacob Cramer, founder of Love for Our Elders, recognized this need, aware that his own nonprofit saw fewer volunteers during this period as well. He saw an opportunity to promote joy and connection during a time of year it’s needed most. The specific day was chosen because Jacob’s grandmother Doris’ birthday falls on February 26. Doris had a tradition of sending Jacob heartfelt handwritten letters, which meant the world to him.

In 2020, Jacob and his college roommate organized the first Letter to an Elder Day at Whispering Pines Rehab and Nursing Center in East Haven, Connecticut. They distributed handwritten letters to the residents, and the local WTNH station covered the story, with Jacob officially coining the holiday on air.

Since then, Letter to an Elder Day has gained recognition from Hallmark, USPS, and numerous national holiday calendars. Though not an official public holiday, the observance continues to grow each year, with over 10,000 people participating across schools, workplaces, community events, and homes.

Timeline

• Early 1900s - As formal care homes are established, letters from family members became an important way to stay in touch

• 1950s-1970s - Various organizations initiate letter-writing campaigns to connect youth with residents in care homes

• 2013 - Love For Our Elders nonprofit is founded by Jacob Cramer

• 2020 - Jacob creates Letter to an Elder Day, launching the first event at a local care home

• Today - Letter to an Elder Day continues to grow, with recognition from USPS and Hallmark and over 10,000 annual participants

How to Get Involved

• Write a letter: Share a thoughtful message with an elder loved one or a stranger through Love For Our Elders.

• Host an event: Organize a letter-writing gathering with friends, family, school, or coworkers.

• Spread the word: Use #LetterToAnElderDay on social media to inspire others.

• Sponsor this year’s holiday: Reach out with your organization’s interest and budget! We’re still looking for this year’s exclusive sponsor.